Oaf Dieting

guys- u get a girl pregnant do u care if she doesnt want u active in the babys life?

she doesnt want u in the childs life.. would u care? wud u just leave her alone and b fine with that?

Public Comments

1. some boys actually PREFER that.....sadly. depends on the boy.
2. You legally, ethically and morally would have no right to do such a thing, whether you wanted to or not. You made the decision to sleep with the guy so don't start whining or acting like you are too holy to have a relationship with this guy now. How could you possibly be so selfish as to think you have the right to rob this child of a father. The only way you could accomplish your goal is if the guy was abusive to you and or the baby. I hope this is not happening to you and from the tone of your question, it seems that it is probably not happening to you. Stop being so selfish and realize that you made an adult decision which had adult consequences and now it is time to deal with the situation as an adult. I hope for your child's sake that you show that kind of maturity now.
3. If the father wants to be in the child's life, you don't have the right to rob the child of a father just because of sour personal feelings towards him. I think you need to ask the father this question. If he doesn't want to then let it be and raise your child alone, having a father around who doesn't want to be there is worse then having no father at all.
4. She should just be happy the guy actually wants to have a part.